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Spring Awakening

Today turned out to be the day. Tuesday. April 21. Far later in the calendar than those living in other places might imagine.

Oh, there have been springlike days in the last month or so, but we always knew that they were just teases. (And I noticed highs only in the fifties lurking next week.) But today was the day nonetheless. I am sure of it. Cherry blossom trees showing out. Birds singing in the bright blue sky. Smiling students lounging on the stunningly green grass, one calling out to me: Hey Dean Sturgeon, is this what California is like?

Yes, it is exactly like this.

All I recall is that it was at a wedding event sometime years ago when I lived in Malibu, probably the rehearsal, when I met a young couple in from Montreal, friends of either the bride or groom. We talked of the weather, probably how perfect it was in SoCal, which it always was. I am sure that I said that I would love to visit Montreal someday, and I suspect that I made it clear that winter was out the question since I was sure that I would never choose to experience a real winter on my own. I remember that the young man insisted that I would have to visit in the winter, which he described as magical. But he described one other phenomenon that really captured my attention. He described a day that happens every year in the spring after a long, long winter when suddenly, somehow feeling like a surprise, spring would appear, and everyone would emerge from their hibernation with an indescribable joy. He said it was the best day of the entire year.

I remember thinking two things. One, I never want to live somewhere with a bitter winter. But two, wow, wouldn’t that be incredible.

Today was that day in my part of Wisconsin. Tuesday. April 21. And it was incredible.

I drove home from work today with the windows down and the sunroof open. I turned on the news at home and fully expected the meteorologist not to use degrees and atmospheric conditions to describe the weather but to say instead that today was happy outside. Because it was.

When we lived in Malibu we told ourselves never to take the constantly beautiful weather for granted, and I think we succeeded. And it is hard to argue with living somewhere where it is almost always perfect outside. But I have learned that there is also something very special about having to wait and wait and wait for something, through month after month of coats and gloves, warm hats and long underwear, snow shovels and ice scrapers, frozen lakes and runny noses, dark days and air so cold that it literally hurts to breathe. Yes, there is something special about that, too, arguably even better, and when that special long-awaited day arrives, that dude from Montreal was right. I’m not sure it was the best day of the year, but it was a damn good one.

Today was happy outside.

Hurry Up & Wait

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We knew prior to departure from LAX that we had a near impossible connection to make at DFW that was only made less likely when our flight left twenty minutes late. I was sure we would not and could not make it, and as we prepared for our final descent into Dallas I asked a flight attendant if he had any advice. He was kind and checked on our connecting flight and learned that it was (unfortunately, for once) on time, but he gave us the gate number and instructions on how best to race across the terminals.

I am a runner.  Let me loose.

The voice on the crackly airplane speaker asked everyone to show kindness and let those with tight connecting flights deplane first, and apparently 98% of the passengers on that particular flight had tight connecting flights. So we weren’t super quick getting off the plane.

I decided not to push the two elderly ladies waiting for wheelchairs out of the way, but when they created an opening, I was off. And we made it. Just in time. To what turned out to be the wrong gate.

Last-minute gate change? You have got to be kidding me.

So I was off to the races again. The voice on the loudspeaker declared that the doors to our (actual) gate would be closing momentarily and that every passenger should be on the aircraft. I ran even faster. Chariots of Fire music wafted through the airport. And we made it. For real this time. Barely. The last two to board.

We collapsed in our seats, breathing hard, and sweating, but happy to have made it in the nick of time. And then the captain announced over the intercom that there was a tiny lightbulb that needed changing and that maintenance was on its way, which took a good twenty minutes.

My sweet wife declared, “Hurry up and wait.”  Exactly.

That seems to be an accurate life mantra: Hurry up and wait. I long for some actual rhythm, but our mad dash through the airport only to wait on a maintenance crew is a pretty good descriptor of my days, weeks, months, and years. Hurry up and wait.

Distance runners do such a thing on purpose and call it interval training. It supposedly makes you better on those long runs. If that’s the case, I’m really going to be good at life someday.