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Football & Feelings

Like a deep, dark secret, I reluctantly confess that I am still technically a fan of the Dallas Cowboys. I do not know why. What began as a childhood obsession with Roger Staubach and “America’s Team” persisted through the controversial Jerry Jones insurrection, probably because the Jimmy Johnson era came quickly and was enormously fun, but the past quarter century, though… Well, what happened was that disappointing underperformance after disappointing underperformance became so predictable that I just stopped caring. It turns out that if you truly expect something to go poorly, it doesn’t hurt at all when it does. And I haven’t been disappointed in decades.

So along the way, in our many moves around the country, I developed the habit of picking up a secondary team. I detest bandwagon fans, and I think it’s against some rule to consider yourself a major fan of a team while maintaining some sort of allegiance to another, but I have permitted myself to cheer other teams on more quietly in the background. First came the Saints when living on the Gulf Coast, then the Rams/Chargers in our move to L.A. (and even some Seahawks when our youngest went to college in Seattle). Between the pandemic and the brevity of our stays in both Nashville and central Illinois I didn’t have enough time to get into either the Titans or the Bears, although I had started paying attention to both. But now we live in Packers country. My goodness, this is a different world entirely. There is no NFL team like the Packers, and there is no other fan base like the Packers. It is special.

I’m posting from Lambeau Field tonight. In a special, special gift, my wife and daughters gave me two tickets to tonight’s Sunday Night Football matchup between the Dallas Cowboys and the Green Bay Packers. And to make it even more special, our nephew, Nick, just happened to be visiting with his wonderful family this weekend, so I have the privilege of taking him to his first NFL game. (What a setting for your first NFL game!)

I thought about it and decided to wear Packers gear tonight, and I am prepared to sing Bang the Drum as needed, but I will smile when things go the Cowboys way, too, and in the end, I am going to be happy all night tonight regardless of what happens out there on the Frozen Tundra.

My first hero was my dad, who played football in the 1930s in the age of leather helmets with no facemasks, and we tossed the football around in the back yard a lot in those precious years of my life called childhood. I learned the game of football by watching a lot of Cowboys games on television with him, and I suspect that the joy I have discovered here in Packer Country is that it represents old school football, which reminds me of my dad.

So, here we go. I have a football game to watch, special memories to make, and a bunch more to remember. Family and football and all sorts of feelings to feel. What a gift. 

The Ghost of Vince Lombardi

“…I firmly believe that any man’s finest hours – his greatest fulfillment of all that he holds dear – is that moment when he has worked his heart out in good cause and lies exhausted on the field of battle – victorious.” – Vince Lombardi

A visit to Lambeau Field probably is (and should be) on every sports fan’s bucket list. It was mine, but I am glad to report that it now has a checkmark next to it. No, I did not wear a cheese head. And no, I did not freeze my tundra off, thanks to unseasonable temps in the low 40s. But if I had, it still would have been worth every shiver.

Packer Nation is simply built different. When you insist on an outdoor stadium in Wisconsin for a sport that culminates in the winter, you’re telling the world that you are built different.

Vince Lombardi remains the spirit animal of the Green Bay Packers. The story goes that Vince Lombardi snuggled up to his wife in bed one chilly night and she exclaimed, “God, your feet are cold!” The legendary Green Bay Packer coach replied, “Honey, when we’re alone, you can call me Vince.” It’s a pretty terrible joke, but it does communicate Lombardi’s status in this neck of the woods.

Lombardi famously said, “Winning isn’t everything, it’s the only thing.” And, “Show me a good loser, and I’ll show you a loser.” But his expansive repertoire of famous quotes incorporates more positive themes and emphasizes words like commitment, discipline, drive, effort, hard work, passion, sacrifice, and toughness. You sense those values simply by joining the Packer fans in the stands, i.e., we can endure anything, even the bone-chilling cold.

My first Lambeau Field experience was even better because my oldest daughter, Erica, flew in for Thanksgiving and came along for the ride. I started an annual daddy-daughter birthday trip tradition with her when she was fourteen, and after many years of beautiful adventures, the tradition faded due to our miles apart, but wow this was a great way to bring it back.

When the crowd gathered around us on the metal bleachers, a group of older men sat directly next to me. My new neighbor discovered that it was my first time and promised a great experience. When I asked if he had season tickets, he said: “No, my buddies brought me here to celebrate my fiftieth birthday.”

Sheesh. I thought he was an old man. I responded, “I think I can still remember my fiftieth birthday.”

Later in the game, an increasingly inebriated young man sitting directly behind me described in great detail to a grandmother sitting beside him the formation of his friend group. He shared that many became friends during COVID when he decided to go around his neighborhood and meet everyone under age fifty. The grandmother responded, “What’s wrong with people over fifty?” I turned around for a high five.

Becoming one of the old people snuck up on me. In all candor, it sort of has the tendency to make you want to give up a little bit. But just as the depression starts to creep in, I hear Coach Lombardi screaming at me from the sidelines that “[w]inners never quit and quitters never win.”

So, I guess, here I am, still kicking, convinced that Coach was on to something when he said that my finest hour, the greatest fulfillment of everything that means the most to me, won’t arrive until I am spent on the battlefield, victorious, having given my entire heart for a good cause.

With thanks for a trip to Lambeau Field and to the ghost of Vince Lombardi, pardon me, but I have work to do.